There’s nothing quite like watching your child and dog form a bond that’s built on unconditional love, loyalty, and a whole lot of playtime. But let’s be real—it takes a little effort to turn a dog into your child’s best friend. Whether you’re bringing home a new puppy or trying to strengthen the bond with the dog you already have, fostering that relationship is one of the most rewarding things you’ll ever do as a parent.
Here’s how to help your dog and child become the best friends pets can be.
1. Start with the Right Dog
Not every dog is naturally good with kids—and that’s okay! Finding the right fit for your family is crucial. When we adopted Bailey, a Golden Retriever mix, we knew her gentle nature and love for people would make her perfect for our two kids. Breeds like Labradors, Border Collies, and Cavaliers are also great choices for families.
If you’re adopting, spend time with the dog to see if their temperament matches your family’s vibe. Look for a dog that’s playful but calm, friendly, and patient enough to handle the unpredictability of kids.
2. Make the First Meeting Magical
First impressions matter, even for dogs. When we introduced Bailey to our kids, we kept it low-key. The kids sat on the floor with a few treats in hand, and we let Bailey approach at her own pace. Within minutes, they were best buds.
If you’re introducing a new dog:
- Let your child sit calmly while the dog explores.
- Keep the interaction short and positive.
- Supervise closely to make sure everyone feels safe.
A great first meeting sets the foundation for a strong bond.
3. Teach Your Kids “Dog Language”
One of the first things we taught our kids was how to “speak dog.” Dogs communicate through body language, and understanding their signals is key to a happy relationship.
- What’s Okay: A wagging tail, relaxed posture, and soft eyes mean the dog is happy and ready to play.
- What’s Not Okay: Growling, lip licking, or a tucked tail means your dog needs space.
We also made a rule: no pulling ears, no hugging too tightly, and definitely no bothering Bailey when she’s eating or sleeping. Teaching these boundaries helps your dog feel safe and respected.
4. Build Shared Routines
Nothing brings a dog and child closer than spending time together every day. With Bailey, our kids became her “team.” Every morning, my son helps feed her while my daughter takes charge of brushing her fur. They love feeling responsible, and Bailey loves the attention.
Here are a few simple routines to try:
- Walks: Let your child join you on walks, even holding the leash if your dog is well-trained.
- Training Sessions: Teaching your dog commands like “sit” or “stay” is a great way for kids and dogs to bond.
- Playtime: Daily games of fetch or tug-of-war are fun for everyone.
These small daily moments create a deep sense of trust and connection.
5. Play is the Magic Ingredient
If there’s one thing that makes dogs and kids natural best friends, it’s playtime. Bailey and my kids love inventing new games together. One day it’s fetch; the next, it’s a backyard obstacle course. The laughter is endless.
Some fun ideas:
- Fetch and Chase: Simple and classic. It never gets old.
- Hide and Seek: Have your child hide, then call the dog to find them.
- Interactive Toys: Tug ropes, squeaky toys, or treat puzzles keep everyone entertained.
Play is more than just fun—it’s how dogs and kids build trust and bond on their level.
6. Let Your Child Take Responsibility
When kids care for a dog, it deepens their connection. We started with small tasks, like my daughter refilling Bailey’s water bowl, and worked our way up to my son handling feeding time.
Age-appropriate tasks for kids:
- Younger Kids: Simple jobs like brushing or picking up toys.
- Older Kids: Feeding, walking, and even helping with training.
Watching your child step up and care for their best friend is heartwarming—and it helps your dog see them as a trusted companion.
7. Celebrate Their Bond
Nothing brings people (or dogs) closer than shared celebrations. On Bailey’s “gotcha day,” the kids made her a dog-friendly cake and picked out a new toy. It’s become an annual tradition, and Bailey loves every minute of it.
Celebrate your dog and child’s relationship with:
- Baking dog-friendly treats together.
- Planning family outings to a dog-friendly park.
- Letting your child pick out toys or accessories for the dog.
These moments create lasting memories and reinforce their bond.
8. Watch the Friendship Blossom
Over time, you’ll see the magic unfold. For us, it was little things—like the way Bailey waits outside the door for the kids to come home from school or how she snuggles next to them during movie nights. Dogs are incredible at sensing emotions, and Bailey has become a source of comfort and joy for both our kids.
The Beauty of Best Friends Pets
When a dog and child become best friends, it’s pure magic. The dog teaches your child about unconditional love, loyalty, and responsibility, while your child gives the dog companionship and care. It’s a win-win.
With a little effort and a lot of love, you can help your dog and child create a bond that lasts a lifetime. And as someone who gets to witness that bond every day, I can tell you—it’s one of the most beautiful things you’ll ever experience.
